True Life

Love and Basketball

Why do men act like they don't care about your past relationships when they know they do? That brings me to E. He is the worst of them all. And probably the biggest mistake I ever made. E played on the same team as J and I talked to him after J went back south. Now E is 6'9", 260, big brown eyes, nice body and sexy. Not as sexy as J but I think it was just the green eyes and that southern accent that gave J his sex appeal.
Anyway, I meet E officially at my job I didn't know him from the team or J; does that make it any less shady...probably not! I saw him walk by and he was tall just like I like them. So while standing in my store I was peeking at him standing in the connecting store. My co-workers came over to see if I knew him because they assume I know every tall basketball player type male that enters the store, hehehe. They said he was being rude so I took that as my cue to go over and introduce myself. I walked over and said "so I hear you are being rude to my co-workers...do you play for the P's...my name is... "And I walked back to my store. Needless to say I had his attention and he couldn't help but to come over, speak, buy something, and get my number. Not to mention I had just had my hair done that day so I looked fierce. He thought he was being a player but I was hip to that game. I gave him my number anyway. He called that night and we haddrinks and an appetizer. While we ate he told me he knew about me talking to J. That didn't bother me because I figured he had to know; I talked to J for like 3 or 4 months. Then he bad mouthed him and I sat there and listened and laughed internally. I took him home with me anyway; what the hell. Scandalous! He came over the following night; we watched a movie and enjoyed each others company. He was leaving for home and then PR the next day. Great, right.
But that night is when the craziness started. He kept saying he was going to marry me and I was going to have his babies, RED FLAG. I'm like wow this dude is wild; but I kept talking to him. He wanted me to come and visit in PR, you know I'm always up to travel; what was I thinking. So I promised I would visit him in PR. He went home and we didn't talk much until after he go to PR (two days later). We talked for another week while he was in PR and one day out of the clear blue sky he brings J back up. At this point I tell him "you knew what the deal was before you got involved and you chose to get involved so what's the problem" he says "you are probably still talking to J". I swore at this point someone had said something to J but I guess not; I sure hadn't spoken to him. But the conversation got really ugly from there. He called me all types of names and I'm sure it didn't help that I just laughed at him and told him to go to hell. He said a ton of stuff that was meant to be hurtful and some of it was, but shit happens. Cry a little and move on. He preceded to tell me lets be friends, lol, what kind of crap is that after you just cursed me out?
I hadn't spoken to him since that last conversation and while I wrote this who IMed me but E, hahaha; "I just wanted to see how you were doing, that's it...can we talk...are you busy...if I get you a ticket will you come visit". Do I have fool written on my forehead? I wouldn't go visit that fool especially not in another country, hahahahaha. He must be out of his mind. I can't wait to see what this fool does when he gets back to the states; after all he did threaten me and tell me he knows where I live, what kind of car I drive, where I go to school and work.

This should be interesting...

posted by no_more_drama @ 8:13 AM